Keep your connection strong. Relationships must be balanced. Appreciating each other.
Whether you have met someone new, or you have been in a relationship for some time now, it’s important to keep your connection strong.
As the months and years go by, it's normal for the passion to wind down a bit. But even as that happens, some habits will keep you close to your partner.
Life can get crazy, and a bunch of other things may occupy you and your partner’s time, so that can get in the way sometimes.
But if you can keep his love and attention on you even as you are going through a busy week, that will keep you going for a long time to come.
As much as we would like to have a secret formula for staying happy together, it's a combination of different things put together.
You will need to make the time, effort and loving patience for your relationship to flourish.
But it is not as complicated or hard as some people think. It is more about doing the small stuff every day.
On their own, these things might not seem like much until they have stacked up over time.
And when you take a step back to see what you have put into the relationship, you will be glad you started as early as now.
To get your man to appreciate the full force of your love and get him to reciprocate here are 5 Everyday Habits to Make Your Man Fall Deeper In Love With You.
If you are a woman looking for a man, you'll need your femininity to appeal to his masculinity.
In a relationship, there needs to be a balance of both energies. So what you bring to the table matters to both of you.
He needs your feminine essence to complement his masculine side, but it is not about catering to his ego.
Instead, you want to be the woman in his life that knows where he is coming from. You can do that by acknowledging the "manly" aspects of his personality and appreciating them.
partners love nothing more than being able to look out for their loved ones, and they get an immense amount of satisfaction out of it.
Your partner also feels at his most masculine when he can face a problem head-on and tackle a massive task with his force of will.
And I'm not saying you can not be those things either, but in a relationship, a man wants the privilege to be able to do those things for you.
If you can give him props for that, and recognize his role in your shared connection, he will be eternally grateful.
Let him be that partner for you by sending words of appreciation and kindness his way.
When he can express his masculinity in the relationship, he will feel like Superman to Lois Lane.
Showing your softer, more vulnerable side to your guy isn't a weakness. It is about giving him the gift of your nurturing care and choosing to do so.
A lot of women underestimate the power of acts of kindness in their relationships. But when a guy knows that he is getting personal attention from the special person in his life, he'll feel loved.
As Bob Marley once sang, "You make me feel like sweepstake winner!"
Not only that, your gentle, healing energy recharges his batteries. He can go back to being his most masculine self again and take on the world.
Being together is a matter of give and take, so trust me, he will want to give back as good as he gets. Doing the "little" things might not seem like much in the big picture, but they add up.
And it will make the connection between you that much stronger. Here are some ways you can start doing that:
- Praise him within earshot of family, friends, and colleagues
- Make him his favourite beverage, or do a Starbucks run and surprise him at work (if you think he's cool with that)
- Gently encourage him to share his feelings after he's had a rough day. Listen to him and let him explore his feelings.
- Send him a couple of texts or messages (less is more, so don't bombard him) every day. It can be anything that makes him feel special, like sending him a silly joke, a quick but heartfelt note, or even a racy message if he seems game for that. A little female attention goes a long way!
- Give him your full attention when you're hanging out together put away your phone for a while and let him feel your full presence
- Plan a surprise date for him. Do something together that you know he will genuinely like. Guys love it when they can kick back once in a while and let their partner do the planning or decision-making.
It might sound counterintuitive to focus on yourself to make your man feel loved. However, this makes sense in the bigger scheme of things.
You see, men do not like to be smothered. Yes, your guy wants your love and appreciation, but not to the point where you’re forgetting your own needs in the equation.
Your man does not know it, but he needs you also to focus your energy outside the relationship.
In the back of his mind, he has to know that you’re also doing things that make YOU happy which does not involve him.
Otherwise, he will feel like it is all on him to give you that sense of fulfilment in life. That is not a healthy dynamic to have.
Maintaining your own identity and sense of independence is a reassurance for him that you’ve got it together.
And this makes him more drawn to you.
It works the same way for him. He also needs to provide himself with that fulfilment so he can be a whole person while in a relationship with you.
No matter how amazing your guy is, having him in your life isn’t an excuse to let everything else fall by the wayside. BALANCE is crucial, so taking care of the following will make your relationship stable:
- Your health, fitness and overall mental and physical well-being
- Your social life
- Your career
- Your other hobbies and things you’re passionate about
- Any projects you’re involved in (i.e., volunteering at a non-profit, etc.)
And the great thing about going off the radar for a while and doing your own thing is that he will MISS you.
Guys have a secret fear of losing you. Funny enough, this is the very thing that makes your man pursue you even harder.
If he knows you’re out there, creating value in the world, that makes you valuable in his eyes.
And when he knows what he stands to lose, he will never think of taking you for granted.
So being unavailable from time to time creates some healthy tension. He’ll be enthusiastic about the “chase” and try to win you over again and again.
conclusion
Be a good listener: When he's going through a tough time or just needs to vent, be there for him and actively listen to what he is saying. Sometimes all he needs is someone to talk to and a shoulder to lean on. The little things count, and showing love and affection doesn't have to be complicated or expensive. It is the thought and effort that counts.
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